Of days drenched in motherly love

mother child bond

There is no refuting the validity of an emotion so universal in its basis that transcends the mere trajectory of the human existence and extends instead to encompass also every single being of the living world so much and such that it shapes up as one of the most innate of all understandings through which life as a whole manifests itself. Relating to that universally exalted as well awareness of an instinct out of which life springs as an entity from the most secure of coves called the mother’s womb, the maternal assertion of every living being is a feeling unsurpassed by any other when it comes to evoking the most blissful experience of a realisation in ultimate selflessness. In being the profound coming together of a whole range of diverse emotions, each one unique in their own capacity in bringing beings to the truest exploration of the life essence, the emotion that a mother feels for her child irrespective of the form and identity of the species to which it alludes is one that is close to being an expression of a divine experience indeed. And it is in rendering upon the motherly assertion this attribute of the godly that this supposedly supreme of all realisations has come to encompass within itself an essence all the more pervasive across every element of residing in the breathing dimension.

Of course it needs no reiteration just how very precious this bond that a mother bears with her child of own bearing turns out to be. So palpable is this heavenly concoction of warmth and love and adoration and devotion and care that serves indeed as the life elixir upon which the mother strives and sustains also her child upon that same dose of inexplicable potion in universal iteration that has managed to command respect and understanding across all spheres of existences personified, whether or not that individual entity happens to be availing of that connection in heartwarming ultimateness. That, even when the emotions that a mother experiences would be one not decipherable in all accuracy by others not pertaining to that sphere of identity, whether in biological or in emotional capacity of their essence in living.

It perhaps in in such surprising power of its assertion that drives one and all to laud this experience of eternal leanings that the motherly adjective charts a significance uniquely stemming to and out of its own. Even in being a singular element adhering to the greater parental understanding in the context of what characterise the whole child identity, parallel in ‘status’ to the opposite gendered but otherwise similar role of the father, the maternal affiliation to the highest standards of regard and in reverence often surpassing the almost similar according of such importance to the fatherly speaks of a certain something that sets apart indeed this role in classification in such aspects that are almost binding on it. And thus unfurls this typical but distinctive still bond dictating the basis of all life everywhere through the experience of an emotion that takes upon itself an essence nonpareil and in very assertive mannerisms of it as well.

The endowing of this love and blessing and care in maternal profusion might be something very emotional and in fact a kicking off the innate instinct to care and nurture for one’s offspring for some reason occurring more strongly in females of all species, perhaps because of their biological capacity to bear babies as a part of their own physical being. But the reason behind this unusually strong rendition of love is as rooted in the valid alleys of the scientific, unsurprisingly as well since birth happens to be as much a bodily process as it is one experienced within.

And thus it occurs in all universality, this tendency of mothers to somehow relate more than personally to the experiences characterising the existence of their children since they feel indeed those happenings almost as if they are actually accruing to them. It therefore is in such instinctive awareness of mothers allover that this according of a definite respect to them takes as universal an intensity of the ultimate. And for good reasons as well. Because in all their immense experience of the purest emotions galore for their child, the maternal strand through which all life comes and continues to be makes every mother far more influencing of the very living of their younglings. Whether it be directing the course of their emergence as an individual judging upon the strength of their upbringing or in presenting also as a veritable criteria along which other aspects of personal life goes on to unfurl, motherly love is more than mere a distinctive allusion to the doctrine of the maternal identity they come to reside in by virtue of mothering a child.

In multifarious such scope of its touching down upon every single element concerning an individually distinct life altogether, the motherly power is one indeed commanding of all the gapes. No wonder this experience in more than overwhelming a feeling unmatched by anything else in particular or even in combination is what makes the mother child bond such a unique relationship that the world holds in deep esteem. And yet even in the face of intense workings of the emotional, the truest unfurling of this purest of all relations shapes up as an awareness in the simplest endowing of happiness of an altogether ambient degree.

Upon this unique premise of love and respect and affection and concern through which the mother child bond blooms and blossoms its way to bring upon oneself a realisation capable of changing one’s understanding of life altogether, spanning as it does also the expanse of what shapes up other life relations like friendship and very pivotal explorations of companionship and a deliverance of the comfort in understanding and support, every mother emerges as the one person that every child can be the most secure with even in all their vulnerabilities. Celebrating therefore of such timeless love and relation that mothers everywhere further with a younger reflection of their self in so much selfless desire and wholehearted lovingness would be such global occasions of observation as Mother’s Day that specifically seeks to honor this time tried bond across its human realm of unfurling even when it is equally evoking of all elements of the emotional across all spectrum of what asserts as the living.

Eking out this relation in distinction as something immensely cherished by all and certainly by the mother and the child is needless to say a foundation set upon the magical might of love. In this expression of both the filial and the parental classification of love, the bond of which the world has forever been in awe is understandably a maverick of the mightiest kind. But what makes also this particular expression on the relationship horizon stand out amongst all other close experiences in devotion, love and the like is its fanning of a very essential virtue.

Every mother child relation naturally harbours a certain degree of empathy- and one that is poignant enough at that- to make for a case in coordinated living that brings upon either a greater appreciation for and an enhanced understanding of life. In fact as an awareness very ingrained in this particular fore of relationship is the empathetic assertion that makes for a crucial aspect in experiencing the truest essence of life. Kindred indeed spirits in their being and essentially as well with one emerging from the other and the other harbouring that one within them as a part of themselves, the mother child bond is necessarily occurring in such encounters wherein the personal experience of one resonates immensely with the connected awareness of the other.

Very evolutionary in character is the maternal empathetic bias that might be an emotional response all right but that still penetrates deep into the bodily makeup. Stemming from the neural network of entirely physical bearings is this strong instinct in selective protection that all mothers bear, fostering by that account in their child positive developmental attributes that do not involve only the passing on of the compassionate power. Significantly affecting also of other factors that ultimately influence the whole building of the child’s disposition is this strongly emergent emotion invariably summing up a facet of the maternal leanings that is what makes the whole mother child connection an even more valued treasure of all times in life and living.

This whole association of the empathy factor over and above the largely inclined ruling of the love might make for a revealing insight into the nuances of the maternal furtherings so celebrated in all of its importance in bearing the essence of all life. But what makes for more specific and also more surprising an exploration of this virtuous endowment is the fact that the empathetic assertion happens to be the strongest between a mother who bears a girl child as her own. Boiling down again to workings very physical indeed is this enhanced experience in empathy since mothers and daughters exhibit similar patterns in their brain structure when it comes to experiencing emotions.

More influencing therefore of each other- and in stronger assertions of them as well than any of the other intergenerational relationships is the mother- daughter relation in particular that which explains why just so many of the world’s female’s connect with their mother on an altogether different level. No wonder most of us grow up to consider our mother as our best friend- the first and foremost at least if not the one and only because we indeed relate that much to them. It might be the gender bias as well, in being a reflection likely to be more striking in appearing as the younger self of our mothers, the daughters of the world reside in a privilege of being even more close knit an emotional expression for their mothers. For mothers indeed whose awareness of the emotions for each of her kids is similar and yet unique, this might be a bias they might not be so cognizant of in their consciousness. But in stemming from a scientifically established fore of reasoning, this shapes up as a realisation at least as universal as the celebrations that unfurl every second Sunday of May as the ultimate occasion of Mother’s Day, irrespective of whether it is a boy or a girl bringing upon them that experience of something that sums up the essence of existence.